Gripped by the Sovereignty of God

Can you thank me for trusting you with this experience even if I never tell you why? -God.
After listening to Walk in the Word with James McDonald today, this comment sticks with me and causes me to contemplate this question in my life. I don't understand why we are in Fargo, why our house hasn't sold, why my mom is in heaven today and left this earth earlier than I wanted her to. BUT, can I thank God for trusting me to endure all these things?